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Writers Worth Two: What You Don’t Deserve

Posted on by lwidmer

I’m still in Vancouver, one of the most beautiful cities on the planet. I’m still hit-and-miss with the WiFi, I imagine (writing this ahead of time), but the Writers Worth continues on in earnest! Another day, another fantastic post! Again, many thanks to all who contributed their thoughts and experiences. You’ve helped writers in ways…

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Writers Worth Two: Confidence

Posted on by lwidmer

Yes, it’s another day of Writers Worth celebration! Thanks again to all who contributed. To those of us reading, we appreciate the words of wisdom. And if you’re new to the blog, you’re seeing some great stuff from some impressive people. I’m still lurking, but not for much longer. We’ll be in the wilds of…

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Writers Worth Two: Finding Niches

Posted on by lwidmer

Welcome to Week Two of Writers Worth, er…. Weeks! I’m not here. If I’m online, I’m lurking from a WiFi spot in Vancouver. That doesn’t mean the fun has to stop.  I know you’ll make each guest poster feel welcome and engage them in conversation. And thank you in advance. Thanks also to Allena Tapia…

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Writers Worth Week: Deciding Your Own Worth

Posted on by lwidmer

It’s been a great week of sharing worth and inspiring others. Don’t forget there’s more next week! Today’s post comes from someone I’ve admired and watched for some time. I was fortunate enough to connect to Sharon Hurley Hall via Google+. In fact, I’d say becoming friends with Sharon was the best benefit I’ve ever…

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Writers Worth Week: More Than You Realize

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I love it when a writer takes a personal experience and turns it into a teaching moment. Paula Hendrickson, whose comments and interactions with others have endeared her to the writing community, shows us through her own frustration how she defines her own worth even as she’s being challenged on that thought. Paula, I hope…

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Writers Worth Week: When the Safety Net is Gone

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  Today’s guest post is from a reluctant poster. Nancy Oliver reached out to me through LinkedIn not long ago, and we formed an instant, decadent email friendship. She’s proven herself to be someone with incredible wit, hilarious insight, and the uncanny ability to spot phony marketing in lightning speed. She came to me with…

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Writers Worth Week: Why Your Per Word Rate Isn’t All That

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Day two of Writers Worth Week, and you’re in for a treat. Urban Muse Susan Johnston is someone I remember “meeting” at the start of her career (and pretty close to the start of my own freelancing career). Here was someone who was going to rock the writing world. And rock it she has. Susan…

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Friday Stuff

Posted on by lwidmer

What’s on the iPod: I Felt Like Jesus by Chuck Prophet No work today. Instead, I’ll be on my way to Portland, Maine for the stepdaughter’s college graduation. Very much looking forward to it. She’s worked so hard to get to this point, and she’s already seeing a payoff. She is the only one of…

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The Importance of Contracts

Posted on by lwidmer

What’s on the iPod: You Ain’t Goin’ Nowhere by Counting Crows Another busy one yesterday. I started a new client project almost at the same time the contract came in. I was eager to get going on this one as it’s a new client I located at the conference. I waited for the contract. Not…

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Client Lessons: What the Dog Whisperer Has Taught Me

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What’s on the iPod: Somebody That I Used to Know by Walk Off the Earth Some days you’re the windshield, some days you’re the fly. Yesterday, I played the part of the fly as a few of my project drafts hit the windshield with definitive splats. In one case, it was a matter of changing…

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  1. Anonymous Avatar
    Anonymous

    Uggg, on the topic of dogs, sometimes you gotta be like the Littlest Hobo and "just keep moving on." (Hopefully you had that show in the U.S.) LOL

    Feeling pretty crappy after breaking things off with a 3.5 year client yesterday… Long story (and long time coming) but things didn't end how I'd hoped.

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  2. Lori Avatar
    Lori

    Sorry to hear about the troubles, Anon. Can we help?

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  3. Anonymous Avatar
    Anonymous

    Sorry for the anon. I am worried he might stumble across this and see my name (totally paranoid).

    This client was very demanding, and when I tried to raise my rates (for the very first time!) to bring him in line with clients I've acquired more recently he refused to give me an answer and just kept demanding work. There have been many issues with payment, no response to email for weeks, requests for freebies that should only take a minute, etc., etc. …there was no balance on his account as I just returned from vacation so I thought it was a good time to end things.

    Like I said, long time coming. I feel I did the right thing for me but still feel a little down and guilty all the same. Thanks for listening. 🙂

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  4. Paula Avatar
    Paula

    Dogs. Now that's an analogy I can understand.

    Appreciate the small stuff – Dogs are thrilled with praise (even more so with treats). When a project is published, printed or posted, tell the client what you like about it. When my favorite editor sends proofs, I'm almost always blown away at the seamless editing, creative layout and even other writers' articles, so I make sure to say how great it looks. You know how good it feels to hear someone compliment your work – clients need a little reassurance now and then, too.

    Go for a walk – When I'm stressed or have a heavy writing day I'll take my dog out for a short walk. She's happy, I'm happy that she's happy, and moving around releases endorphins or something (Cathy will probably know what) that lift your mood and boost your energy. When you're back at the desk, your head is clear and you can focus on work again.

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  5. Lori Avatar
    Lori

    Anon, no worries. If you feel safer staying behind the scenes, that's totally fine.

    Let me guess – he was always expecting everything be done yesterday and perfectly, yet he was slow to pay, wouldn't give you a raise, rarely said anything other than "I need" to you. From this chair, you're well rid of him!

    Don't feel guilty for parting ways with a client who doesn't fit. You weren't paid what you were worth, you weren't treated like a professional, and you weren't enough feedback to make his projects correct. It was a business decision and once you find a client who treats you better, you'll soon lose any guilt you have with relief.

    Paula, I figured you'd like this one. 🙂 Appreciate the small stuff – definitely makes the job worthwhile!

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  6. Anonymous Avatar
    Anonymous

    haha Yup, you nailed him! Thanks for the encouraging words, Lori.

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  7. Anne Wayman Avatar
    Anne Wayman

    Anon, you'll bless the day you moved on to find a better client.

    I mimic my cat a lot – she doesn't panic and is never afraid to ask, over and over again, for what she wants.

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  8. Lori Avatar
    Lori

    Anon, I had not one, but two higher-paying clients who were just as demanding, late with checks, etc. Stress at ANY price point isn't worth it. You'll find better and you'll know how to handle it now. And sooner, I suspect! I don't know about you, but my sh*t meter pegs much faster these days. 🙂

    Anne, that's a great role model. 🙂

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  9. Cathy Miller Avatar
    Cathy Miller

    And Cathy just got back, Paula, from one of those walks. Sadly – no dog – although I would love to have one. I LOVE dogs. 🙂

    I admit, I have never seen the Dog Whisperer – really. So, I'll pick up the pointers here (better than picking up something else that dogs bring to mind) 🙂 and learn from your experience. 🙂

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  10. Devon Ellington Avatar
    Devon Ellington

    Drop the drama queens asap unless they're paying six figures plus combat pay plus two-weeks at the spa.

    They aren't worth it, and there are better clients out there.

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  11. Gabriella F. Avatar
    Gabriella F.

    Hi Lori.

    Haven't commented in a while. Been busy and focused!

    Anyway, what I learned from my dog:
    "Oh, my gosh, it's my best friend Fannie!"

    "Oh, my gosh, it's my best friend Otis!"

    "Oh, my gosh, it's my best friend Josie!"

    In other words, you determine how you'll be today. Will you focus on being happy to see your friends, or will you be a Grumpy McGrumperson? Your clients will likely follow your lead.

    P.S. Totally agree on the walks. I take my dog for two outings during the work day. One brief walk midmorning and a Michigan Ave. beach outing in the afternoon. I get as much out of them as he does.

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  12. Lori Avatar
    Lori

    Cathy, it's a nice show. He's basically teaching people how to be "pack leaders" so that the dog will pick up on that behavior and respond as part of the pack. Brilliant.

    Devon, if they promised in writing to pay for a spa, I might actually consider the drama queens! LOL Alas, they rarely see their behavior as problematic, so they work without me, I say.

    Gabriella! You're back! Definitely missed you, girl. Grumpy McGrumperson — I'm totally calling someone that this week. I like your perspective on how dogs approach other dogs. A lot to learn from our canine companions…

    A walk along Michigan Ave sounds terrific. Great place to unwind! Better that you're doing it when it's warmer. Every time I've been there it's been December.

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