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Reality Check: Are You Freelance Writing Material?

Posted on April 25, 2019April 25, 2019 by lwidmer

Yesterday, my workday looked like this: I revised a client article most of the morning. Due date — as soon as possible. Simultaneously, I was dealing with phone calls and texts from family members about our summer place. There’d been flooding. Apparently, I’m the designated calm voice in a sea (pun not intended) of anxiety…

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What Freelance Writing Isn’t

Posted on March 18, 2019March 14, 2019 by lwidmer

Today is the day after my favorite day: St. Patrick’s Day (and the anniversary of this ol’ blog). If I’m here, I’m probably sporting a rather-not-do attitude. So this post is scheduled in advance. Last week when I was looking through LI forums and Twitter, I noticed a lot of the same old, same old….

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Losing Your Freelance Sh*t While Remaining a Pro

Posted on December 18, 2018December 17, 2018 by lwidmer

You know the feeling: You’re running to beat deadlines, you have a holiday flying up on you faster than expected, you have yet to book that flight, someone’s playing Christmas music over and over and…. Did I just hear your last nerve snap? Wait, no. That was mine. Go on. Admit it. You’re losing your…

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4 Must-have Elements of Trade Magazine Writing

Posted on December 5, 2018December 4, 2018 by lwidmer

I love it when people say “Trade writing is boring.” Actually, I don’t love it. The “boring” part is not true. What’s boring about finding an interesting angle to a technically challenging topic? What’s boring about making it reader-friendly? What’s boring about making people remember that article because you, the writer, went out of your…

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The Most Profitable Freelance Writing Niche

Posted on November 30, 2018November 29, 2018 by lwidmer

I saw something on Twitter yesterday that made me click. It was a blog post promising the most profitable freelance writing niches right now. I read through the list. Uh huh. Some of them I agreed with. But all of them sounded limiting. I won’t fault the blogger for pointing out what in essence is…

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How to Quit Your Freelance Writing Career

Posted on October 31, 2018October 30, 2018 by lwidmer

Look online right now — Twitter, LinkedIn, Reddit, you name it. I guarantee you you’ll find at least five articles telling you how to start a freelance writing career. Or if freelance writing is for you. But no one has told you how to quit one. Until now. Say what? That’s right — I’m about…

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The Reliable Freelance Writer Guide

Posted on October 18, 2018October 16, 2018 by lwidmer

Thanks to everyone who joined Paula Hendrickson and me for the Writers Worth chat on Tuesday! Lively discussion from everyone — we’ll have another one soon. Every now and then I like to read through old blog posts — not all great advice is recent, you know? I came across Peter Bowerman’s post from a…

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4 Ways to Write Controversial Topics

Posted on October 9, 2018October 8, 2018 by lwidmer

Mark your calendar: The next Writers Worth Twitter Chat happens Tuesday, October 16th at 11 am ET! Join Paula Hendrickson and me for a fun and informative chat. Use the #WWMChat hashtag to be part of the conversation!   Today, I’m refining a pitch to a magazine that could, under many circumstances, be rejected. It’s…

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Writers Worth: The Power of No

Posted on October 5, 2018October 4, 2018 by lwidmer

Don’t miss the next Writers Worth Twitter Chat! Join Paula Hendrickson and me on October 16th at 11 am ET using the hashtag #WWMchat Didn’t I promise you some Writers Worth love throughout the year? Here you go. Saying no. If you do an internet search on how to say no to clients, you’re going…

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The Freelancer’s Self-Assessment Guide (or what I learned from a week in the woods)

Posted on September 25, 2018September 24, 2018 by lwidmer

To say it was a good week away would be a stretch. It was relaxing. It was necessary. But it was full of memories and, for me, tears. Maybe the decision to head to the cottage in Ontario right after a memorial for my father wasn’t the best idea. It was all too raw yet….

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  1. Paula Hendrickson Avatar
    Paula Hendrickson
    September 25, 2018

    Your father has been gone for less than a year, Lori. And that year is filled with firsts. Grief takes most of us a long time to process and get through, and while the sense of loss never fully goes away, at some point–probably without your even realizing it—those memories that bring tears today will bring smiles and laughter. There’s no schedule for grief, either.

    Lately I’ve had this feeling that certain people in my life view me as somehow inferior. You know, when the people who have kids (even adult kids) are always the ones to set holiday plans, leaving my sister and me out of the loop. Intellectually, I know it’s because they have more schedules to juggle. But I’ve also noticed that the same two who tend to make all of the plans second guess me. Often it’s about cooking (they seem to forget I did most of the cooking around here even before my mom died). The funniest was when my niece was about 10 and asked me to teach her to knit. We barely got started when the two planners started watching and correcting me. They both know how to knit, but were taught the continental way (aka “picking”) which is faster than the English way (“throwing”) I was taught. All they did was confuse my niece. I finally looked up at them and said, “What’s the last thing either of you knitted?” They backed off, but by then my poor niece was so confused.

    With the holidays fast approaching, a lot of those incidents are bubbling to the surface, so I’m really trying to remember that even when these things happen, it’s not about me being inferior. It about others needing to share their opinions. I’m sure I do similar things to them without realizing it, too.

    I’m way more assertive with work stuff.

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    1. lwidmer Avatar
      lwidmer
      October 1, 2018

      Paula, don’t we all get that feeling now and then? We feel inferior, and often the triggers are so mundane or unnoticeable to anyone else. It’s often something inside us that happened years ago — something that, upon reflection, could be cleared up with a conversation.

      Maybe just start the holiday plans for your sister. Tell her “These are the days I’m available” and ask her to check with you should she need to go beyond one of those dates.

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