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Author: lwidmer

This Job, Not That Job

Posted on March 29, 2018March 28, 2018 by lwidmer

What I’m listening to: Die Like A Rich Boy by Frightened Rabbit It’s been a few months since we’ve done the This Job, Not That Job tribute to the worst jobs of the moment. It’s not for lack of material. Today’s candidate for the Worst Job on the Internet comes via Jenn Mattern. Jenn spied…

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8 Ways to Bury Your Freelance Writing Image

Posted on March 28, 2018March 27, 2018 by lwidmer

What I’m listening to: Hanuman by Rodrigo y Gabriela I spent the last two days working like mad to get some client work finished – I wanted to head west and bring my mom back here for Easter. But she’s decided she’s staying put this year. She’s really struggling with getting back to a normal…

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Free Advice Friday: The Words that Spell Doom to Your Freelance Writing Career

Posted on March 23, 2018March 28, 2018 by lwidmer

What I’m listening to: Ghost in the Machine by Our Last Night “Terms are terms. They aren’t good or bad until we add context.” That’s the argument I received after objecting to someone’s use of the term “liberal snowflakes” to describe my Facebook video of the recent snowstorm. It seems I made it political by…

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Excuses that Kill Your Freelance Writing Career

Posted on March 21, 2018March 22, 2018 by lwidmer

What I’m listening to: Telescope by Starset Today, I call bullshit. For every writer out there with their own particular brand of excuse that explains why some of us make it as writers and they don’t, I’m calling your bluff. This particular head of steam started on a forum discussion. On it, the advice being…

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Marketing Monday: Revamping Marketing Content

Posted on March 19, 2018 by lwidmer

Late post today — mostly because I’d thought I’d written one, but found it wasn’t quite finished and I’d left it in my Draft folder. Today is your new year. Tell that to yourself any time you think you need to restart, but are waiting for some magical date or time to do so. Today…

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Purposeful Marketing for Freelance Writers

Posted on March 14, 2018March 12, 2018 by lwidmer

What I’m listening to: Airplane by j-hope For the first time in two years, I’m back to active marketing. I had a nice run. At the height of it, I had seven clients month over month. Yet all good things end. In a few cases, it was expected. My marketing these last two years has…

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Marketing Monday: The Lemming-less Freelancer

Posted on March 12, 2018March 12, 2018 by lwidmer

What I’m listening to: Conductor by We Were Promised Jetpacks It’s not just Monday — it’s the Monday that brings We Were Promised Jetpacks to Philly. My tickets are bought and I’m ready. It’s also Marketing Monday. Sorry to miss the last few. Life (and death) got in the way, to say the least. But…

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The Freelancer and The Ethical Boundary

Posted on March 8, 2018March 8, 2018 by lwidmer

What I’m listening to: Can’t Stop the Feeling! by Justin Timberlake A year or so ago, I had an unpleasant encounter with an editor that didn’t end well. Normally, I wouldn’t talk about such things openly, but there’s a lesson in here that all freelance writers should be learning. It’s about how much control clients…

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A Freelancer’s Guide to Setting Your Damn Price Already

Posted on March 6, 2018March 5, 2018 by lwidmer

What I’m listening to: Closer by The Chainsmokers I was reading through some LinkedIn posts the other day when it dawned on me yet again: Freelance writers have no idea how to set rates. No, they really don’t know how to set rates. In a few cases, the questions revolved around “How much should I…

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The Days of Doing Without

Posted on March 1, 2018March 1, 2018 by lwidmer

This post isn’t about writing. It’s about loss. It’s been eight days since my father died quietly and quickly. In the ten minutes from the time my mom called to say he had a rattle (the death rattle was one we’d watched for in the last few months) and I’d called back to see if…

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  1. Jake Poinier Avatar
    Jake Poinier
    March 1, 2018

    This is simply beautiful, Lori. I’m so sorry for your loss. My dad died nearly 20 years ago, and not a day goes by that I don’t think about him. Sound like you’ll be the same, which is something to be treasured. And yes, I am writing this through tears 🙁

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    1. lwidmer Avatar
      lwidmer
      March 1, 2018

      Thank you, Jake. It’s the habit of calling and talking to him that’s getting me right now. And the thought that I can’t tell him about what’s happening with the kids. And the idea that now, he really isn’t going back to the fishing cottage anymore.

      I know what you mean, Jake. These are things I can’t see myself forgetting or fully recovering from. Just moving on is all I can hope for, knowing that there’s a pretty sizable hole that can’t be filled any longer.

  2. Cathy Miller Avatar
    Cathy Miller
    March 1, 2018

    Beautiful tribute, Lori. I feel like I know your dad through your words and memories. Time knows no end as memories bring our yesterdays, today, and tomorrow in a sweet embrace of comfort. Love you, Lori.

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    1. lwidmer Avatar
      lwidmer
      March 1, 2018

      Love you right back, Cathy. And you’re right — the memories bring everything back into the present, don’t they?

  3. Paula Hendrickson Avatar
    Paula Hendrickson
    March 1, 2018

    That sounds like a lovely service, Lori, and very befitting the man himself.

    After the acute stages of loss ease, you’ll see those same mannerisms and laughter and quicks in yourself or your family members. I can’t count how often my siblings and I say (about ourselves or one another)< "That was SO Dad!" Or "You sound just like Grandma." My sister and I even noticed our late aunt-by-marriage's mannerisms in her niece.

    In time seeing those things will bring comfort and a sense that your dad has never really left any of you. He's part of you all.

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    1. lwidmer Avatar
      lwidmer
      March 1, 2018

      That’s true, Paula. I catch myself pointing my finger in that same sly, funny way my grandmother did.

      Well, I’m hoping the part he left me was his fishing ability (though I think in a few cases, I out-fished him). He did give me his fishing pole and reel a few months back. I felt like I’d struck gold. 🙂

  4. Joy Drohan Avatar
    Joy Drohan
    March 2, 2018

    What a beautiful remembrance, Lori. May we all be so loved and missed. I think if everyone had a parent like your dad, this world would be a different place. Thinking of you!

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    1. lwidmer Avatar
      lwidmer
      March 5, 2018

      Thank you, Joy. 🙂

  5. Devon Ellington Avatar
    Devon Ellington
    March 7, 2018

    Sending you lots of love.

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  6. Mary Schneider Avatar
    Mary Schneider
    March 16, 2018

    Not sure how I missed this when it posted, I’m sorry for that. I was thinking of you today and was going to drop a note to see how you were doing.

    ((big hugs)) It’s over 26 years and I still miss my dad every single day. It doesn’t go away, but the ache fades and the memories keep you moving forward. He sounds like an amazing man.

    Take care of you, Friend. (hugs)
    Mary

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    1. lwidmer Avatar
      lwidmer
      March 16, 2018

      Thank you, Mary. For some reason, today is a tough one for me. And tomorrow — it’s St. Patrick’s Day. My holiday. Yet I just don’t want to celebrate. I do, but I really don’t. I will show up at the pub for a short time, but I won’t do the all-day marathon fun and games I’m used to. I feel like being reverent.

      Quite a hole he’s left here. 🙁

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