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Worthy Tip: Time for Service

Posted on by lwidmer

The message came onto the display panel of my Saab yesterday – “Time for Service.” Since cars have somehow become smarter than people, I took it seriously enough to look it up online. Seems the car has been pre-programmed to give service notices at particular mileage or date points. Since we just turned over 56K,…

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Saving the Project

Posted on by lwidmer

We spent the weekend in CT with family, sharing stories of a wonderful life – that of his uncle Ted. While I’d met him only once, I came away from the memorial, which was a six-hour storytelling and singing, seeing several sides of this remarkable person – good and bad. It was time also to…

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Fridays, Dark Clouds, and Weekend Redemptions

Posted on by lwidmer

Let’s just say this week has not been the most inspiring or motivating for me. It started out shaky with some project-related tensions. Though the project was completed successfully, it was an exercise in patience as things went from odd to completely bizarre. Another project seemed poised for disaster, as well. Still another jolt came…

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Guest Post: How to Succeed in Business Writing

Posted on by lwidmer

Usually by Thursday I run out of things to say. Oh, I can vent until the cows come home, but I mean things to say about writing that’s new or unique. Lately I feel spent because of the “luxury” of having a lot of ongoing work. While normally creativity is inspired by lots of writing,…

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On Shaky Ground

Posted on by lwidmer

Today’s a vent day. I swear this week New Orleans has nothing on my career when it comes to that sinking feeling. By six pm Monday I was emptying a bottle of Chianti. It wasn’t just work related, though that was a large factor. It was also Tivo related. Damn thing has a broken hard…

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Spec-ulating

Posted on by lwidmer

I remember my first “real” magazine gig. It was for Highlights for Children and it was a piece I was writing on spec (for those new to freelancing – that’s a piece you write that the magazine reserves the right to reject without pay). Not the best solution for breaking into “the big time” but…

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Sending the Wrong Mesage

Posted on by lwidmer

I saw an ad recently – in the mall – that was just plain insulting. I won’t name the company, but the banner ad hanging prominently in the mall said, “Surf the Internet while your wife buys you slacks.” What’s wrong with that ad? I counted a number of sins in that one sentence. First,…

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Monthly Assessment – February 2010

Posted on by lwidmer

Wow, short month! Here we are again, baring our souls and our progress together. It was a very busy month for me despite my dropping a long-time client last month. The income I thought I’d miss was quickly replaced with better-paying work and much better working conditions. Here’s how my month shaped up: Queries:One. Seriously….

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Raindrops on Roses?

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When Julie Andrews sang that song in Sound of Music about her favorite things, it’s obvious her character wasn’t a freelancer. Either she’s an eternal optimist or she’s never waited months for payment. And while there’s a place in the world for optimism (a very large place), there’s also room for a little skepticism and,…

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Quelling the Beast

Posted on by lwidmer

What sends fears, chills, and anxiety right into your bones? For me, it’s when a client wants to talk about my project results, but not the same day. It’s not even that they say it’s bad – it’s that they say nothing. That’s when the voices in my head scream “They hate you! You suck!”…

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  1. Kimberly Ben Avatar
    Kimberly Ben

    I do the same things, Lori – read over emails and testimonials from happy clients. I also find that no response can sometimes leave room for irrational interpretation on my end.

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  2. Devon Ellington Avatar
    Devon Ellington

    First of all, the whole 'We need to talk but not today" is nothing more than a manipulative power play. The person saying it knows you're going to worry and fret — that's the whole point. By the time you actually talk, you've worn yourself down emotionally, and the other person has control.

    I call back as soon as I get the message and say, "I'm sorry, I'm not available tomorrow. We have to discuss this NOW."

    I freelance because I want control of my own work and my own life. I won't be manipulated like that.

    I also rarely accept another assignment from a client who pulls that kind of crap.

    When the Doubt Demons attack — which they do more often than I'd like — I go back over good reviews or testimonials or whatever a little bit. But, usually, just pushing forward on the next project makes me regain confidence faster than anything else.

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  3. Lori Avatar
    Lori

    It's a scheduling thing sometimes, Devon. I don't necessarily mind the "can we talk later" thing as long as I know I haven't botched it completely. It's my own demons I fight in these cases!

    I like it, Kim. Positive reinforcement from happy clients helps keep my brain thinking I'm doing okay.

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  4. Wendy Avatar
    Wendy

    My favorite thing to do is talk to other people or visit other blogs where people share their bad experiences.

    Knowing that I'm not the only one to have gone through something helps me more than testimonials or Thank you's( they certainly help too, but not as much as connecting with other people). Getting out your frustration by sharing your GRRR! moments with someone who will Growl right along with you helps you make it through also.

    For me, if someone wants to discuss a project another day, it usually ends up being a minor thing. So, it doesn't really rile me up too much. When they have something bad to say; it's usually done right away with the email they send that says they want to chat about the project.

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  5. Paula Avatar
    Paula

    Since most of the time I deal with my editors via e-mail, whenever I get a voice mail I assume it's something very urgent. Oddly, I don't panic if I answer the call. No time to dwell, I guess.

    One over-worked editor always sounds tired, which makes vague "give me a call as soon as you can" messages seem bad. Usually, it turns out she's editing my story and has a question. Sometimes it's to assign something. Yet in the back of my mind I'm always thinking, "Oh no – the magazine is folding."

    I've had several of those calls over the years. They're never fun.

    Deep down I know that as long as it's not "we're folding," I can find a way to deal with whatever the situation turns out to be.

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  6. Anonymous Avatar
    Anonymous

    Hi,

    I have a message for the webmaster/admin here at loriwidmer.blogspot.com.

    Can I use some of the information from this post right above if I provide a link back to this site?

    Thanks,
    Harry

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  7. Lori Avatar
    Lori

    Hi Harry,

    Send me the info to where it would be posted and I'll consider it. Thanks for asking!

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