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Taking Advantage of Free Time

Posted on by lwidmer

What I’m reading: The Pearl by John SteinbeckWhat’s on the iPod: She Hates Me by Puddle of Mudd It feels good to feel good again. The tightness around my scar has eased up (thanks to Bag Balm and Neosporin), and I’m losing that bruise and bruised-chest feeling. When I met my Vietnamese student for tutoring…

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Rates (and Why I May Have Changed My Mind)

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What I’m reading: The Pearl by John SteinbeckWhat’s on the iPod: Good Arms vs. Bad Arms by Frightened Rabbit Amen for convalescing! I’m back this week in force, though the work is relatively scant. I can’t sign up for much due to an upcoming vacation, but I can get stuff lined up and maybe start…

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Redneck Guide to a Better Career

Posted on by lwidmer

What I’m reading: The Skull Beneath the Skin by PD James (finished it!)What’s on the iPod: All You Ever Do is Bring Me Down by The Mavericks Where I come from, people are familiar with the term “redneck” and yes, even in places where the people live simply, it’s not considered a compliment. In my…

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My Me Day

Posted on by lwidmer

For Kathy: What I’m reading: The Skull Beneath the Skin by PD James (downstairs) and Rebecca by Daphne Du Maurier (upstairs)What’s on the iPod: She’s Mine by Brett Dennen How strange is it that I’m calling today my “me” day, the day I do just for myself? This coming off a week of recuperating and…

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The Minimal Life

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I’ve figured out that until this body recovers, my life is a series of minimums. Minimum amounts of work, minimum movement, minimum excitement, minimum activity in general is the new order. Yesterday I managed one small project and two blog posts. Today, another small project and one more blog post. Then the stitches come out…

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Slow Going

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Who’d have thought a minor surgery would have me reeling days later? Seriously, yesterday I had what I thought was a setback. I was absolutely drained of all energy. I was weak. I was aching in a way that you’d ache if you had a cold or flu. No fever (very slightly above normal). I…

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Excuses for a Large Scar

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It’s funny how when one is convalescing, one can quickly adapt to the “sick” feeling as one tries to follow doctor’s orders. Yesterday was lightheadedness, a little fatigue, and lots of “Maybe I should sit down and rest” feelings. But since that bloody phone rings every 20-30 minutes, it wasn’t happening. I turned off most…

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Upright

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A big thank you and love to everyone who wished me well both publicly and privately on surgery. The power of positive thinking works – I had probably the smoothest recovery times imaginable. The day of surgery wasn’t pleasant, but I needed just one round of painkillers and anti-naseau meds. By that evening, I was…

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Friday Vapor Trails

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By the time you read this, I may be under sedation, which given the number of hassles I’ve had this month could be a blessing. Nothing like forced nap time for the busy freelancer, eh? Since I’m not going to be around, I’m leaving you some dribs and drabs of fun, trivial things. Hey, it’s…

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Kicking Bad Habits

Posted on by lwidmer

If I had back all the time I spent on Facebook, I’d probably get an extra week or two of my life back. It’s my diversion. It’s also my time sink. When I’m on deadline, it’s my nemesis. And curses to the person who decided to tie Bejeweled Blitz to Facebook! There goes another good…

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  1. Devon Ellington Avatar
    Devon Ellington

    Right now, my biggest time suck is figuring out intriguing ways to shut up/drive away the harassing "workmen" so I can actually get some work done, and, oh, I don't know, maybe live my life again.

    Thinking of you tomorrow.

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  2. Wendy Avatar
    Wendy

    Sending you best wishes for the surgery tomorrow and the recuperation afterward. Take care of yourself. We want you back in one piece, please.

    Blogs are my biggest weakness. I visit a ton of blogs to see what's going on. It sure can suck up a good deal of time for me.

    I don't care for Facebook. I also don't care for Bejeweled Blitz. I do play some other games similar to that though. They don't hold my attention like blogs do.

    Reading is another one. I get into a good part of a book and can't seem to put it down long enough to get to work. Sometimes, I'll put it down, but my mind will still be on it.

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  3. Cathy Avatar
    Cathy

    Good thoughts for your surgery, Lori, and a speedy recovery.

    I'm with Wendy-it's the blogs. I try to keep to set times, but I am bad about sticking to it.

    The 2nd one would be the surfing. I'm researching for a project & all of a sudden, a strange phenomenon occurs-the internet sucks me in & takes me on a bizarre ride all over cyberspace.

    I feel like some character from a time machine movie. 🙁

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  4. Diane Avatar
    Diane

    Facebook – I have the notifications come to my phone now so I'm NOT constantly checking in, but I have to get into the habit of strolling on in 2 or 3 times a day instead of several.

    Computer games – I can't get them at work and I try not to log on too often at home, so they're getting better. But when I am logged in at home, Bejewelled …

    Email – I feel I have to answer/reply RIGHT NOW when really I'm sure the sender wouldn't care so long as I got back to them eventually.

    Blogs – I check in once a day while I have a cuppa. If I have time, or feel strongly enough about something, I'll comment. I always, always reply individually to everyone, apart from the rare occasions where they're all saying the exact same thing so really one reply to encompass all is the sensible option.

    Droppers in – I got everyone out of this habit when I worked from home, apart from maybe once a week when my mom and dad would pop over. Now I have the same thing with my office at work. Some are well trained and ask if it's ok to come over first; others just wander on in, empty cup in hand, saying "put kettle on then". I am a communicator, I have to communicate, and I often find out lots of little gems from these drop in sessions, but when I'm busy? Sheesh, I could really do without.

    Good luck tomorrow.

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  5. Paula Avatar
    Paula

    This is why I'm glad I never got into Facebook or computer games.

    Like Diane, I generally limit my blog reading to my mid-morning tea time. (My green tea with fresh ginger is almost cool enough to sip – it's taunting me as a type.)

    I often get sucked into e-mail, but when I have a deadline I'm also good at ignoring any messages that aren't urgent. When new messages come in, I click over to my e-mail tab and see if it's something that can wait. Usually it can wait. (Two new e-mails came in while I was writing this, and I haven't checked them yet. Feel free to admire my restraint, LOL.)

    Other than a couple of LinkedIn groups that I frequent (I pretend LI is work related), the place where I'm most likely to waste time is Ravelry – the social networking site for knitters and crocheters. I post my latest projects, check the forums, and occasionally seek out cool new patterns to add to my queue. But if a deadline is pressing, I'll intentionally avoid Rav for a a few days.

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  6. Katharine Swan Avatar
    Katharine Swan

    Facebook is one of my biggest time sinks. Checking Craigslist's pet section and flagging all the breeders was another until recently — I stopped checking it about a week ago.

    Oddly enough, blogs have fallen by the wayside for me lately. I am trying to get back into the habit of blogging regularly, but I still haven't been as good as I used to be about checking in with my favorite blogs. This is my excuse for what I am about to ask.

    What are you having surgery for, Lori? What did I miss? I hope you are okay.

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  7. Ashley Avatar
    Ashley

    Lori, I'll be praying that your surgery goes smoothly and recovery is quick.

    Blogs are my biggest time suck. I have everything I'd like to read in Google Reader. The 1000+ unread blogs taunts me all the time. There just aren't enough hours in the day.

    And Paula, I'd never heard of Ravelry. I love to crochet! Now I'll never get anything done!

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  8. Paula Avatar
    Paula

    Sorry Ashley….you're the second person I've tried to hook today. (stop groaning, that was a classic crochet pun). If you join, you can find me on Ravelry as LaReina.

    Lori – good luck with the surgery. I'm sending good thoughts and lots of positive energy your way.

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  9. Carole Avatar
    Carole

    Best wishes regarding your surgery.

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  10. Michelle C Avatar
    Michelle C

    Hi Lori –

    I lurk and don't usually comment, but I started using LeechBlock as a Firefox add-in. It allows me to limit FB (or Ravelry -which is also a huge time-suck for me; Paula – I'm InnerFlossie over there) to specific hours or days or time limits per day. Sends a "site blocked" message to my screen. Granted this only works with browser related time-sucks and frankly is ridiculously easy to turn off, but is a good "what the heck am I doing on FB AGAIN reminder" when I should be working.

    Good luck with your surgery. – Michelle

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  11. Lori Avatar
    Lori

    Michelle, thank you for commenting! And the LeechBlock thing is EXACTLY what I need!

    Thanks, Carole. I'm alive. 🙂

    Ashley, Paula is our resident knit wit (I mean that in a GOOD way). :)) She's a prolific knitter and I enjoy the blog a lot.

    Katharine, you made me chuckle. No worries – I missed you, but I'm happy for any visit! 🙂 Thyroid surgery – they removed the left side because it was enlarged. I'll know this week if I'm C-free. The doc thinks it looked healthy enough, so I may not need radiation.

    Paula, I was getting a LinkedIn habit, too. I had to go cold turkey with it. When I got busy it was easy, but this month I may have to restrain myself. 🙂

    Diane, I did the same thing with Facebook and the phone. The trouble is I rarely use my phone (I look at it once a day). So when I do I have a million messages to wade through. I think I need a new system. 🙂

    Cathy, thank you for the note! Doing fine. 🙂 I'm a surfer, too. Those things I think "I should look that up" usually come up amid research.

    Wendy, thank you. I'm back minus one piece, but I'm back. 🙂 I love a good book, too. I'm able to put them down, though, unless they're exceptional.

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  12. Lori Avatar
    Lori

    Devon, you have a horrible distraction there. Sending you warm thoughts and good vibes.

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  13. Katharine Swan Avatar
    Katharine Swan

    Lori, thanks for filling me in. :o) I'm glad the surgery went well and you may not need radiation! That's good news!

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  14. Clare Lynch Avatar
    Clare Lynch

    The calls from "John" in Mumbai have stopped for me, ever since I left one caller utterly gobsmacked by giving the answer "no" to the following question:

    "Would you be prepared to sponsor a puppy that could save a blind person's life".

    I've obviously been labelled too heartless and tightfisted to sell to, which is fine by me!

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