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Author: lwidmer

The Freelance Writer’s Client Screening Kit

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A few years ago, I was in conversation with a potential client over a few projects they were looking to complete. The conversation went well. However, I didn’t agree to work with them. Oh, they did ask me to take on their projects, but I turned them down cordially. The reason: They didn’t pass the…

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Free Advice Friday: This Job, Not That Job

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What astounds me these days isn’t that the job offers are so pathetic; it’s that they are rampant across all genres. If you’ve not noticed, far too many of my posts lately have been This Job, Not That Job posts. Why? Because there are far too many lousy job postings lately. This one comes from…

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How to Look Like a Dweeb to Potential Freelance Writing Clients

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There’s plenty of freelance writing advice out there to help you get clients. But not a lot of it is telling you what not to do. I cruise around social media a lot. That’s where many of the worst offenses occur because, for some reason, people do not realize that everyone and his Uncle Fester…

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Wednesday Wisdom: This Job, Not That Job

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Just when you think it couldn’t get weirder, it does. I’m talking about job postings. Let’s not call them “freelance opportunities” because honey, they’re not. They’re employer/employee listings. Someone is looking for a writer, but is dictating the salary. That’s not a freelance writer at all. But I digress. This listing, which is probably the…

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4 Ways to Get Your Freelance Writing Client to Yes

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A while ago, I had a client who liked to talk about how well we might work together. Trouble was that’s all he did — talk about it. It never amounted to anything. Call it analysis paralysis or just lack of knowing how to go forward, but sometimes clients just can’t pull the trigger on…

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Cutting Ties with Freelance Writing Prospects

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A number of years ago, I had connected briefly with a client prospect at a trade show who showed interest in working with me. Let me rephrase that: I connected repeatedly with that client prospect, first at the trade show, then close to two dozen times over the years via email and in person. After four years…

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This Job, Not That Job: Learning Via Collage

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Sometimes I see one job posting that’s so bad, it sets my hair on fire. Sometimes I see several. There are so few hours in a day (or a life), so instead of examining them one by one, I thought I’d pull out elements from some of the worst. We can learn from these. Mostly,…

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Writers Worth: This Job, Not That Job

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Some days you’re the windshield, some days you’re the fly. If you’re still cruising job boards as your primary source of work, you’re the fly meeting the windshield. With rare exception, job postings work out in favor of the poster, not the writer. And if I’ve not preached enough on the subject, job postings give…

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The Marketing-Is-Not-Hard Marketing Guide

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There I was, staring at the computer screen, growling. Once again, someone on social media was talking about how incredibly hard marketing is. Know what’s hard? Cement. Rocks. Building a rocket launcher using straws and kindergarten paste. Heads hitting desks when people say uninformed things like “marketing is hard.” Marketing is not hard. Please, can…

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Professional Jealousy and the Freelance Writer

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A number of decades ago, I had an interaction with a new person in our writers’ group. We had posted a notice in the library announcing our group and welcoming interested writers to join. One person answered the call — a writer who had a monthly column in the local paper. We greeted him warmly, and…

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  1. Paula Hendrickson Avatar
    Paula Hendrickson

    When I first started out, I literally counted how many bylines I had in a business trade I wrote for — as well as how many bylines the other contributors had. I did it for a bit of self-motivation. I wanted to be the contributor with the most bylines. Silly, I know. When one of the other writers, who I hadn’t met at that time, began catching up I started feeling jealous. That’s when I knew I had to stop obsessing over who had the most bylines. The editors of that publication assigned ideas to the writers they felt were a good fit, and who had time for the assignments. I probably just had fewer clients at the time.

    The best part? That other writer is now one of my closest writing pals. Just the other day she sent me a story idea she thought one of the places I write for might like!

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    1. lwidmer Avatar
      lwidmer

      Paula, it sounds like you motivated yourself through jealousy — I kind of love it. 🙂

      I’ll admit I’ve been a tad jealous when my stories, which I thought were cover stories, weren’t. Or when someone writes the very story I was about to pitch. 😉 Some jealousy is normal, I guess.

      When it becomes the very thing that drives you, that changes who you are and how you conduct business, that’s a problem, in my opinion. If a writer is reacting all the time, they’re not creating their own unique path.

      In one particular case where jealousy was aimed at me, I had another person point out that yes, this writer was clearly gunning for me. I knew it, but you just try to ignore it. But others were seeing it. I removed myself from the situation. Seemed the best solution as I wasn’t really enjoying the interactions anyway.

    2. Paula Hendrickson Avatar
      Paula Hendrickson

      There’s another long-time contributor to one of the places I write for, and whenever the editor says someone else already pitched an idea I send, I know it’s probably her. We are usually on the same wavelength. And a few times I’ll see her stories and say, “Why didn’t I think of that one?”

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