Skip to content

Words on the Page

a freelance writing resource.

Menu
  • Blogs Worth Reading
  • Courses
  • Ebooks
  • Free Writers Worth eBook
  • Guest Posting Guidelines
  • Home
  • Marketing 365
  • Monthly Assessment
Menu

Going Professional

Posted on September 21, 2009 by lwidmer

Amie over at Written Expressions has a neat discussion going about talking about someone else’s work in a negative light and getting called on it. We’ve all done it at some point, and some of us have lost jobs (well, there were other things going on there, but yes, I did lose a job), lost…

Read more

Banding Together

Posted on September 19, 2009 by lwidmer

Some very interesting discussion is going on over on the Certified Professional Writers Association on LinkedIn. What options can we choose to help improve our profession and stabilize earning power among the ranks? I highly suggest you join the discussion (and the group – group leader Leon Sterling is a staunch supporter of protecting freelancers’…

Read more

Client Boo-boos That Become Yours

Posted on September 17, 2009 by lwidmer

I was listening to a friend lament about a client who is a blamer. Apparently this client, a woman, doesn’t make mistakes, nor does she forget anything. My writer friend knows this because the mistakes and forgetfulness of this client are passed right down the food chain into said writer’s lap. I sympathize. I’ve been…

Read more

Using Scammers as Bait

Posted on September 16, 2009 by lwidmer

My guest blog is over at Devon Ellington’s Ink in My Coffee today. Go on over and check it out. Here’s a new one – I received a message on my phone last week, a bit convoluted, but basically the caller was asking about an organization I was part of (?) and mentioned he wanted…

Read more

The Value-added You

Posted on September 15, 2009 by lwidmer

Maybe it’s because work has arrived again. I went cruising a favorite job listings site yesterday, but I couldn’t bring myself to apply to anything. In one job listing in particular where price wasn’t mentioned, I knew by the wording that it would be a huge waste of my time to A) craft a solid…

Read more

The New Etiquette

Posted on September 14, 2009 by lwidmer

Maybe it’s just rotten luck, that there are too many email filters, or that people move around more than their email accounts can keep up. There’s a reason why my emails to editors with story ideas go unanswered. For every ten emailed ideas I send out that aren’t used, I get zero responses. And it’s…

Read more

How Low Can You Go?

Posted on September 11, 2009 by lwidmer

Irreverent Freelancer Kathy Kehrli has found yet another Get-a-Clue Freelance Request, which offers a whopping $5 for a 500-word article. I don’t know what’s more disturbing: the offer or that Kathy’s repository of lousy offers appears bottomless. She’s been exposing these requests for years and each time I think I’ve seen it all, she brings…

Read more

Street Cred

Posted on September 10, 2009 by lwidmer

I won! I won! Yay! Thank you to Maria Schneider, her blog community, and you guys for naming this blog one of the Top 25! Head over to the Editor Unleashed blog and see the other cool choices. Many are new to me. One in particular is a favorite – The Urban Muse. Congratulations to…

Read more

Here Comes the Sun

Posted on September 9, 2009 by lwidmer

It seems the work reappeared right when the school buses did. I’m inches from swimming in it again. Fantastic! Given the fact that I didn’t get much marketing in, this is great. I now have three regular gigs and a number of others coming that are going to make it a nice fall/winter. I was…

Read more

Falling Short

Posted on September 8, 2009 by lwidmer

Faceboook wisdom – sometimes no matter how hard you try, some people still suck and you can’t please them. It reflects one or two less recent situations in which the client (a third-party client in these cases, so no worries of embarrassment) didn’t care to instruct or amend or even help us understand. Instead, she…

Read more
  • Previous
  • 1
  • …
  • 195
  • 196
  • 197
  • 198
  • 199
  • 200
  • 201
  • …
  • 267
  • Next
  1. devon Ellington Avatar
    devon Ellington
    September 8, 2009

    In the theatre, one gets a lot of screamers. I walk away. When the person's fit grows, I say, "When you are ready to act like a professional adult, I will deal with you. I'm not a nanny; I don't cater to children's tantrums." And I leave.

    I don't care how a big a "star" they are, I do not tolerate that type of behavior. Period.

    Reply
  2. Gabriella F. Avatar
    Gabriella F.
    September 8, 2009

    I'm sooo lucky. Haven't had any abusers in the freelance world. Now if you're asking about when I practiced law at big firms with big egos, that's another story! It's the reason I left.

    Reply
  3. Paula Avatar
    Paula
    September 8, 2009

    It wasn't a business situation, but I recently encountered a real doozy when doing some volunteer work.

    The woman who was supposed to be in charge of the organization never followed through on anything. Since she never responded to other people's requests or comments, people started asking me what was going on, how they could get her to actually do something as simple as hold a meeting. (She abruptly canceled the previous meeting upon getting a call from one disgruntled member. When she told me her reason for canceling, I said, "If this is as important to you as you say it is, why would you let one person's opinion cause you to cancel a meeting?")

    When passing along a message to this woman – plus board members and other officials – from people who desperately wanted a meeting to discuss major problems they were having, I said something like, "Perhaps it's time they demand a meeting."

    The woman ignored every word other than "demand" and blew her top in a private reply to me. She was saccharine sweet in the "reply all" version, thanking me profusely for my dedication to the group and bringing the situation to her attention (she never did anything to address the problem). Privately, she said my "anger" was what was in the way of the group's progress. She said "demand" was a violent and angry word. I view it as proactive. The irony is that I'm probably the least angry person on the planet!

    I kept things civil, but replied saying that it was telling that none of the other people copied in on the same e-mail detected any anger whatsoever, so perhaps she needed to look inward to find the real source of that anger. Then I prepared a message to send her in case she got nasty and I needed to block her from e-mailing me.

    She's been pretty quiet ever since, other than asking me fore a re-cap of the meeting those people eventually did set up – and she skipped.

    Reply
  4. Chantal Avatar
    Chantal
    September 8, 2009

    Once I had a client tell me he was going to throw up at the rough cut we had created. We thought he was kidding. He wasn't.

    Reply
  5. Myric Avatar
    Myric
    September 8, 2009

    Working in and around Hollywood egos I've had my share of problem clients. My favorite way to handle things thus far is one I witnessed:

    This particular client was a screamer. The louder he got the higher people jumped and the further backward they'd bend to try to please him. Nothing seemed to work. He'd scream himself hoarse every day and return the next day freshly gargled to scream some more. One day he was yelling at a co-worker, who stopped him when he paused to take in a breath and asked, "Were you saying something? I can't hear you over all the screaming."

    No more yelling for the rest of that project.

    Reply
  6. Wendy Avatar
    Wendy
    September 8, 2009

    It's been awhile since I've had to deal with a client like that.

    My son, however, is a different story.

    Reply
  7. Kimberly Ben Avatar
    Kimberly Ben
    September 10, 2009

    I've had one that I'm still trying to forget. I like thinking that will never happen again…

    Reply
© 2026 Words on the Page | Powered by Minimalist Blog WordPress Theme