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Totally Random Thoughts

Posted on by lwidmer

What I’m reading: The End of the Alphabet by C. S. Richardson (fantastic)What’s on the iPod: Girls Lie Too by Terri Clark Sometimes when I come to writing these posts, I have lots swirling around in the gray matter and can’t land on one idea. Sometimes, yea, nothing. Today it’s a swirling day. Demand StudiosPer…

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Creating Your Market

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What I’m reading: Spartina by John Casey (it’s getting good now)What’s on the iPod: Take it to the Limit by The Eagles Talking with a writer chum yesterday was great. In a short conversation, we were both able to brainstorm some new ideas to recoup what we’d considered losses. In his case, there was a…

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The Confident You

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What I’m reading: Spartina by John Casey (still not sold on this one)What’s on the iPod: Summertime by Kenny Chesney Ashley, this is for you. Last week you said this: “I think I’m just scared to fail. Maybe that’s a good topic for another post — how did you build confidence in yourself?” You’re right…

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Monthly Assessment – May 2010

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What I’m reading: Spartina by John Casey (it’s slow going)What’s on the iPod: Moondance by Van Morrison I hope you’re not in front of your computers right now. I hope you’re taking a nice holiday weekend to remember the sacrifices others made so we could have independence enough to define our careers and enjoy our…

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Will Specializing Save Freelance Writers?

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What I’m reading downstairs: Spartina by John CaseyWhat’s on the iPod: Conductor by We Were Promised Jetpacks If you haven’t read Jenn Mattern’s in-depth examination of Demand Studios, please take ten minutes to do so. She’s done an excellent job laying things out for writers to take what they want from it. And she’s gone…

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Are You Settling?

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What’s on the iPod: Peace Frog by The DoorsWhat I’m reading: Transparent Things by Nabokov (almost finished) Thanks to Devon for sending me a link to this article about newspapers now outsourcing to Demand Studios. Read it and weep. Loudly. While this news is disturbing and may indeed indicate a downward trend in publishing, what…

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Nudging the Client

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What I’m reading upstairs: Absalom! Absalom! by William FaulknerWhat’s playing on the iPod: Sometime Around Midnight by The Airborne Toxic EventYou? Toddle on over to Anne Wayman’s site for my latest post. Sometimes when work is slow in coming – like now – I nudge clients. I send out emails. Nothing new there, except what…

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What Lost Taught Me About Freelancing

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What’s on the iPod: Tupelo Honey by Van Morrison What I’m reading upstairs (I have upstairs books and downstairs books): The Thich Naht Hahn Collection Love it or hate it, Lost became a television phenomenon – a wild ride through suspended rationality and a lesson in faith over fact. When it ended on Sunday, reactions…

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The Passive-aggressive Client

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What I’m reading: Transparent Things by Vladimir NabokovWhat’s on the iPod: The Twist by Frightened Rabbit Like that? I thought it might be fun to share what we’re reading and listening to. Spent a great Friday off with a writer friend I’ve known for a while, but never met. She and I hit it off…

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Friday Stuff and Ponderings

Posted on by lwidmer

It’s been a rough week. Emotionally, anyway. Work hasn’t exactly been front-and-center, but it’s probably a good thing. I sat down yesterday afternoon with all intentions of putting together an article for one of my favorite magazines. Instead, I wrote a farewell note to a dying friend, one I haven’t seen in years, but one…

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  1. Gabriella F. Avatar
    Gabriella F.

    Lori, you're a good friend to take the time to put your words on paper for your friend. I'm sure it'll give him some comfort.

    Turns out, your week is just like mine.

    Yesterday I made the decision to euthanize my dog today, and I have fits of tearing up. He's a great dog, and I'll miss him dearly.

    That said, I had a deadline yesterday, and I have another today. So I've let myself tear up, hugged and petted him, and then gone back to work.

    I'm sorta glad for the deadlines. Work is actually taking my mind off the sadness.

    How do you work when life interferes? Like you said: You just do.

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  2. Valerie Avatar
    Valerie

    Ugh, what a heavy week. Good for you for staying so balanced, though. The more in control we like to be (for me, that'd be a lot), the more those life interruptions can really knock us off our game.

    Hope your month finishes on a happier note.

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  3. Irreverent Freelancer Avatar
    Irreverent Freelancer

    Lori, sorry to hear about what you're going through. Your last sentence says it all: "More important things like friendships and memories and connections are calling." You might want to spend some time doing personal writing to sort out your own feelings too. Even when it's just for my eyes only, it seems to help me.

    My week has been okay, but next week is looking pretty slow. Memorial Day always seems to be preceded by a workload lull, so I guess I shouldn't be surprised. In prior years, the whole month of May was a washout for me, so I'm not going to complain about one week.

    Hang in there! We're all thinking about you.

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  4. Lori Avatar
    Lori

    Gabriella, I'm so sorry. I lost my life dog years ago in a freak accident (my fault). I cried for days. I still can't get over that I caused him pain, though one of his last acts was to lick my hand. My heart goes out to you.

    I hope so too, Valerie. 🙂

    Kathy, thank you. I've been writing poetry. The note yesterday was a bit of a tribute, a poem of sorts. I appreciate the thought. I need to get it on paper.

    I have been surrounded by too much death and dying since February. I'm ready for some good news.

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  5. Cathy Avatar
    Cathy

    I couldn't sleep last night because I had such an unproductive week & couldn't shut the brain off.

    My Mom had cataract surgery so I have been taking her to appointments, applying eye drops every 2 hours, and generally just taking care of her.

    Virtual hug to you, Lori & Gabriella. This puts in perspective "a bad week."

    My silver lining, though, was a client gave me another white paper assignment and expanded my work for them to include a case study. Another client agreed to a proposal for monthly ghostwritten articles. So the next few weeks are definitely picking up.

    So, let's shake off the week, enjoy our weekend & start fresh on Monday. You are all amazing people!

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  6. Lori Avatar
    Lori

    Cathy, sorry about Mom's health issues. They ARE yours too, by proxy at least.

    Sounds like next week will be much better for you. 🙂

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  7. Maura C Avatar
    Maura C

    Tough week. Next week will be better. You gave me the gift of a wonderful lunch conversation today. Thank you for your friendship.

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  8. Lori Avatar
    Lori

    Maura, likewise. It's wonderful finally meeting you, and finding out you're a kindred soul. 🙂

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  9. Paula Avatar
    Paula

    What is it about this May? All kinds of emotional trauma and dismal earnings for many of us.

    Writing that letter must have been cathartic for you, Lori. Doing that may have freed up a portion of your brain that could focus a bit on work. Sometimes life is all about getting through the bad stuff.

    My heart also goes out to Gabriella, too. Putting a pet down is one of the hardest decisions a person can make, since there are more variables with pets than end-of-life decisions for humans, where legal aspects apply. I had to make that decision 10 years ago for my best dog ever (no offense to my current do, who's a close second despite her cat-like independent nature). As hard as it was, there was no doubt that it was the only humane option. Had I been the one suffering needlessly, I would have wanted it to end peacefully.

    Doggie Stella (aka Wagglebutt Happygirl)- one of my recent guest dogs – is having surgery/biospy tomorrow. I just hope the results are encouraging so my sister won't soon be facing the same decision Gabriella faced.

    I hate summer, but can't wait for June to get here. Fresh month, fresh start.

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  10. Lindsey Avatar
    Lindsey

    Since I'm fresh starting out, everything is gutter level right now… 🙂

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