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Writers Worth: When Fear Has Many Faces

Posted on May 24, 2018May 24, 2018 by lwidmer

Jenn Mattern is one of the most fearless people I know. She’s an aggressive marketer, planner, and writer. I don’t know a time since I’ve known her that Jenn hasn’t had several projects going on at once. Her whiteboards in her office (she has a few) scare the hell out of me. They’re loaded with…

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Writers Worth: Fear Without Apology

Posted on May 23, 2018May 16, 2018 by lwidmer

There’s an honesty about Yolander Prinzel that is what I would call refreshingly disturbing. It’s refreshing because she gives you her genuine feelings. It’s disturbing because her words often make you face the very shit you’ve been trying to cover and hide from. I adore Yo because she’s never afraid to say what she’s thinking,…

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Writers Worth: When Fear is Your Friend

Posted on May 22, 2018May 10, 2018 by lwidmer

Join us on Twitter today at Noon ET for the second Writers Worth Month chat – Use hashtag #WWMchat to take part! Reasons why I adore Paula Hendrickson: She showed up one day and made friends quickly She volunteered to run this blog when a liver surgery sent me into a nine-day hospital stay She…

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Writers Worth: Fear of Taking it Seriously

Posted on May 21, 2018May 3, 2018 by lwidmer

I need to stay off writers’ forums. A recent conversation that started seriously enough turned ridiculous far too quickly. The guy asked a serious question: How do you know if freelance is your choice? Facing a full-time offer, he was having second thoughts about taking that offer. While right there he’s pretty much answered his…

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Writers Worth: Kicking First

Posted on May 18, 2018May 7, 2018 by lwidmer

I’m a Sharon Hurley Hall fan. In fact, I sort of stalked Sharon for years on social media. I was there, hanging in the background, hoping to get a chance to reach out. Why I was nervous about saying hello is beyond me, and now that I know Sharon, I realize how silly it was…

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Writers Worth: Is Fear Getting in the Way of Your Worth?

Posted on May 17, 2018May 3, 2018 by lwidmer

If life gives us a do-over, I would want to come back as Emily Fowler. She’s vegan (okay, I’m vegetarian — close). She’s tattooed (I’m too fickle to get a tattoo — what if I change my mind?). She’s pink-haired (this week?). She’s about to be a new mom. And she’s British. Geezuz, do some…

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Writers Worth: Removing the Mind-Killer from Client Relations

Posted on May 16, 2018May 10, 2018 by lwidmer

Some friendships are purely coincidental. Such is the friendship that Dana Ford and I share. A technical writer by day, he dons the garb of Super Friend in his off-peak hours. We bonded over fathers and loss. We also bonded over all sports Pittsburgh-related, sharing snippets of “Can you believe that call?” or “Where was…

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Writers Worth: Snipe Hunting and Other Scary Freelance Things

Posted on May 15, 2018May 3, 2018 by lwidmer

Mary Schneider has already overcome a lot of fear. She reached out on this blog, on social media, and made friends. She pushed down the fear of rejection and built connections and friendships. She opted to work hard at her freelancing instead of waiting for success to come to her. And she’s pushed past a…

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Writers Worth: Fear of Freelance Writing

Posted on May 11, 2018May 2, 2018 by lwidmer

Let me tell you about Joy Drohan. A number of years back, Joy reached out and thanked me for my part in a joint webinar Jake Poinier and I had held that Joy had attended. We got to talking (with me, we always get to talking). She’s now my accountability partner, and — I’m admitting…

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Writers Worth: That Other F Word

Posted on May 10, 2018May 1, 2018 by lwidmer

Cathy Miller is my phone buddy. It’s not unusual for the phone to ring and for Cathy to be on the other end. We’d spent many years in what I call a Writer Gang — Jenn Mattern, Yo Prinzel, Cathy, and me. It transitioned easily to phone calls. And boy, do we talk! Typically we…

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  1. Cathy Miller Avatar
    Cathy Miller
    May 10, 2018

    I am so loving the intros to this series, Lori. So personal. So heartfelt. So you. It’s why we love you. Thank you for being there and thank you for all you do to make a great impact on our industry. I love the journey of watching this Writers Worth series evolve. Best advice money can’t buy (I heard that somewhere). 😉 Thank you, my friend.

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    1. lwidmer Avatar
      lwidmer
      May 10, 2018

      I think I heard that somewhere too, Cathy! 😉 Thank you, my dear. You’re a sweetheart of a human, and one hell of a writer. Proud to know you on every level.

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    lwidmer
    May 10, 2018

    I LOVE that countdown, Cathy! Great way to break the cycle, for sure.

    That one-hour rule is a keeper, too. I tend to go on too long about slights and “What did he just say to me?” statements. Just vent, then move on. Great idea. Let’s see if I can apply it successfully. 😉

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    1. Cathy Miller Avatar
      Cathy Miller
      May 10, 2018

      Yeah, applying it is the trick, Lori. It helped a lot when I finally brought my typical reaction to a conscious level. Thanks again for sharing your real estate. 🙂

  3. Jake Poinier Avatar
    Jake Poinier
    May 10, 2018

    Well done, Cathy! I like the concept of the emotional timing, as well as the 5-second rule. (Also, funny how similar our fear lists are!)

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    1. Cathy Miller Avatar
      Cathy Miller
      May 10, 2018

      Isn’t it though, Jake. I like emulating the best! 😉

    2. Jake Poinier Avatar
      Jake Poinier
      May 10, 2018

      Funny that they *occurred independently*, I should have said! #GMTA

  4. Paula Hendrickson Avatar
    Paula Hendrickson
    May 11, 2018

    Cathy always nails it, doesn’t she?

    I’m not sure which I like more – 1-2-3-4-5-Go! or the emotional timer. Both are really smart things to do!

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    1. Cathy Miller Avatar
      Cathy Miller
      May 11, 2018

      You are too kind, Paula. Thank you!

  5. Devon Elllington Avatar
    Devon Elllington
    May 15, 2018

    I figure a 15 minute Pity Party’s about it. All I can stand of myself or from anyone else. Then it’s time to get going. I’d rather try and risk failure than not try and definitely fail.

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    1. Cathy Miller Avatar
      Cathy Miller
      May 16, 2018

      I love that you shaved it down even more, Devon. The older I get, the less time I spend on the Pity Party, too. It doesn’t pass the Miller Meter of energy spent.

  6. Sharon Hurley Hall Avatar
    Sharon Hurley Hall
    May 18, 2018

    Love the idea of a starting ritual to fight fear, Cathy. More inspiration – thanks! 🙂

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    1. Cathy Miller Avatar
      Cathy Miller
      May 18, 2018

      Anything for my twin ?

    2. Sharon Hurley Hall Avatar
      Sharon Hurley Hall
      May 19, 2018

      😀

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