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Lori’s Annual Reminder That You’re Worth More Than You Think

Posted on by lwidmer

Welcome to a new economy and a new round of idiot job posters hoping to secure your writing talent for little-to-no money all by either sweet-talking you or convincing you you’re out of your mind to expect more than they’re offering. With our financial pictures fading to darkness nationally, don’t expect anything but an increase…

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Why I Hate Vacation Time Off

Posted on by lwidmer

Oh, how we all long for time off too, don’t we? But have you noticed the weird phenomenon that occurs when you go off on vacation – be it the Christmas holiday or the vacation-by-the-lake kind? The working world senses you’re about to leave and pounds you with projects. Then you come back to …….

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Mixing It Up

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I’m out of the office this week, but I left vapor trails for you. Being the duty-bound soul I am, I had to write some posts in advance so as not to lose any of you faithful followers. Yes, I have a sickness. It’s called punctuality. I can quit any time I want. Really. In…

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Business Interruptions

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It’s slow here right now, as I suspected. One client is sending work by the bucketload, but others are silent. I’m hoping it’s simply that it takes a week for them to get back into work mode and start aligning those projects again. It won’t matter. My mother informed me she’s coming to stay with…

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Open Oven, Insert Head

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It never fails – I’m riding the high of a great freelancing year and a nice holiday season when WHAMO! there’s that damned 1040 tome weighing down my mailbox. Each year I vow to get an accountant. Each year I don’t. Each year I do my own taxes. Each year I get a letter from…

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If Your Paradigm Shifts, Will it Hurt?

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I’m a jargon hater. Seriously. I can’t stand the use of five-dollar words when a ten-cent word will do. Yet without fail I see numerous business folks using words like “business critical function” (and where’s your hyphen, people?) and “paradigm shift” when they really mean “important” and “change in business focus.” It’s like an addiction…

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Ethics and Common Sense

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Writer friend and I were talking about journalistic ethics again. It’s a topic we bring up on occasion, and it’s one that leaves us both shaking our heads. We mainly lament the lack of ethics courses in various college journalism/media concentrations. We wonder out loud and to each other, where exactly do these new journalists…

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If the Shoe Doesn’t Fit

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Today’s the day I tell a prospective client that his project is not a good fit for me. It’s unfortunate as I think the guy’s nice, but I’ve asked repeatedly for and have not received the project outline or notes. What I have received are musings that are nowhere near related to the project as…

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Happy New You

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We were at the local coffee house open mic last night. One of the performers looked into the crowd and said, “Happy New You. I won’t say happy New Year because if you don’t change you, it’s going to be the same as last year, isn’t it?” Light bulb moment. We’re so busy looking at…

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Resolving Not to Resolve

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I hate resolutions. Never has there been any other form of self-promise and goal setting that was doomed to fail at the outset. We make them and instantly break them. Why? Because we aim too high, dream beyond our own abilities, bite off more than we can chew (or chew more than we should –…

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  1. Irreverent Freelancer Avatar
    Irreverent Freelancer

    So true. I didn’t even mention my goal of staying at my current weight by exercising regularly. I fear if I put down that I will exercise every day, I’ll feel forced into it and then just not want to do it at all. By NOT making it a New Year’s resolution, I can think of it as something fun I WANT to do. Hmm, maybe I should have been a psychologist.

    And congrats on the big income boost. I haven’t yet seen any cut in business as a result of the recession either. In fact, I was busier this December than any other one I can remember, and a lot of clients I haven’t heard from in ages popped back in and indicated they’d need assistance in 2009.

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  2. wcsfun Avatar
    wcsfun

    Wish I was enjoying the boom in business you ladies are! I’ve been super-slow. Hours are spent mailing, quoting, meeting prospects -but no approved projects yet.

    Just wanted to chime in with a great psychological tip I read that has helped me. (IF’s comment reminded me of it.) Whenever you’re trying to do something positive for yourself-like exercise or eat right that you don’t feel like doing, replace “have to” with “get to” when you mention it to yourself or others. (I “get to” go to the gym…. I “get to” market my business to reach greater success. I “get to” eat right so I feel strong/healthy.)

    If I can focus on how fortunate I am to “get to” do things many people wish they could do but can’t because of sickness, disability, or any other obstacle, I actually end up feeling a bit more appreciative and dread the activity or task less. As writers, we more than most understand the power the right words,(or the wrong ones,)can have.

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  3. Carrie Wilson Link Avatar
    Carrie Wilson Link

    I like the theory behind this. My new goal is to write 500 words a day, since 5 pages just overwhelmed me, and made me feel like a failure each time I didn’t do it.

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  4. Kirk Petersen Avatar
    Kirk Petersen

    I’m not big on resolutions either, but I resolve to read every single post on Words on the Page in 2009. To that end I’ve just subscribed for email delivery — to my REAL email, not my spam-catching registration address.

    Lori I can’t tell you how grateful I am for your advice and support. I know how, conceptually, to market myself, but I need help at the “first do A, then do B” level, which you’ve been generous in offering, both offline and on your blog.

    May God bless you and yours and grant you a safe and prosperous New Year. Oh… and I’m going to exercise more.

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  5. Lori Avatar
    Lori

    Kathy, amen. Recession has yet to reach this desk, as well.

    WCSfun, great tips! I get to eat pomegranates today instead of that nasty sugary cake! :))

    Carrie, I think that’s smart. If the goal’s too hard to reach, you’re going to drop it. I love the idea of whittling it down to something very do-able. Hey, I put in at least 500 words on these posts every day. Putting it toward a novel is just as easy!

    Kirk, I LOVE your resolution! LOL I’m not just happy to help you, I’m eager to. I know if the situation were reversed, you’d be right there helping me. I know you’ve got the talent and the marketing savvy. Sometimes those first steps are a bit too shaky if you’re going it alone! Much happiness to you and Nina this year. :))

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  6. Devon Ellington Avatar
    Devon Ellington

    I agree that you need to break down big picture goals into actions and then actually do them.

    What I’m sick and tired of are these touchy-feelies who coo, “ooh, don’t make a big resolution. Do something easy so you can feel good about it.”

    The whole point of setting goals and making resolutions is to stretch yourself in new directions and grow.

    Resolutions are not for wimps, and I’m tired of everything getting dumbed down so we can “feel good” instead of actually initiating positive change.

    Not everyone is cut out to be good at everything. Sometimes we fail. And some of those failures can lead us to something much better.

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