Skip to content

Words on the Page

a freelance writing resource.

Menu
  • Blogs Worth Reading
  • Courses
  • Ebooks
  • Free Writers Worth eBook
  • Guest Posting Guidelines
  • Home
  • Marketing 365
  • Monthly Assessment
Menu

And the Winner Is….

Posted on by lwidmer

…Stacy Quarty! You are the winner of the Amazon e-gift card. Send me a note with your preferred email (just click on the link to the left there) and I’ll send your Amazon card today! Here’s how we decided – I went to Random.org and typed in numbers 1 through 10 as values (I’d posted…

Read more

What I Finally Get About Twitter

Posted on by lwidmer

Update on the Great Social Networking Experiment I get it, okay? I finally understand that Twitter, like any other social networking tool, works as well as you make it work. It takes a little time to get your rhythm, but it does work. Here’s what I’ve learned about Twitter: Twitter in small doses. My first…

Read more

Three Years and Counting

Posted on by lwidmer

Three years ago today, I posted my first blog entry and wondered “If I write it, will they come?” They did. At first in trickles, but three years later the Words on the Page blog is a thriving little community of commenters, online chums and offline friends who keep coming back for more. I’m honored,…

Read more

Giving Good Phone

Posted on by lwidmer

Last week I had a call that was expected to take 20 minutes. An hour and a half and several failed attempts to interrupt the talker later, I made excuses and hung up. It was gawd-awful. Worse, the caller was offended when I halted the one-sided conversation. Devon came to my rescue beeping in on…

Read more

Start Cheap, Stay Cheap

Posted on by lwidmer

This is probably not what you want to hear during a shaky economy, but lowering your rates is going to backfire. I was skimming back through my blog posts when I came across this one from 2006. At the time, I’d just had a client whom I’d worked for at a cut rate recommend me…

Read more

A Pain That Gets You Right There

Posted on by lwidmer

I’ve probably mentioned before having a desk chair that had me craving Fridays at 5. What I didn’t tell you is the husband bought me a new one for Christmas – a top-of-the-line Big Girl Chair, with more adjustable settings than Craftmatic could dream up. Happily, I loaded my old chair into my car and…

Read more

Technology That Ticks You Off

Posted on by lwidmer

Perhaps I shouldn’t write when I’m upset, but that I’m upset in the first place is bad, especially since I should be writing instead of being upset. Did I lose you? Stick with me – it gets better. I bought a digital recorder a while back – an Olympus VN-4100PC. Since my old recorder died…

Read more

Discrimination and You

Posted on by lwidmer

Thanks for all the great discussion around the WAHM post last week. I was glad to get such great feedback, and very happy Katharine brought up discrimination issues based on something an HR rep once said to me. She made an excellent point, too. What that HR rep said bordered on discrimination, if not crossed…

Read more

Things That Make You Go “Huh?”

Posted on by lwidmer

This is a totally off-topic post, so pardon the break in our usual writerly discussions. Just some things I’ve been wondering about. Feel free to add your own! Why is it you have to have a Google account to be part of Blogger, but you can’t use your GMail address as a logon? Every time…

Read more

When to Let Go

Posted on by lwidmer

There was a situation recently involving one of my clients and one of their customers. (Facts have been altered to protect those involved, including me.) The customer was considered a difficult sort and the client was scrambling to make her happy. From her first contact with them, she’d laid down the ground rules, which appeared…

Read more
  • Previous
  • 1
  • …
  • 208
  • 209
  • 210
  • 211
  • 212
  • 213
  • 214
  • …
  • 267
  • Next
  1. Devon Ellington Avatar
    Devon Ellington

    I think it’s a learning curve, and we have to get burned a few times in order to learn where that line is for each of us.

    Reply
  2. Lori Avatar
    Lori

    I’m a believer in trusting instincts. You know when to let go in most cases, but you press on, hoping somehow or other to be able to accomplish the impossible.

    Hope slamming against instinct – it’s what makes this job interesting. 🙂

    Reply
  3. Cyndy Kryder Avatar
    Cyndy Kryder

    Lori,

    I have to tell you that I enjoy reading your blog because you discuss these tough issues. So, thanks for that.

    I’ve been a freelance for longer than I’d like to admit, and I agree with you that we need to trust our instincts. There have been times from the first start-up call on a project that I’ve known things would not work out well. Unfortunately, it took me a long time to realize that I need to walk away in these situations.

    Then there’s always the issue of “firing” our clients, the ones who are rarely satisfied and who give us just too much drama. I don’t think we should ever be afraid to do that, even in this economy.

    Reply
  4. Lori Avatar
    Lori

    Hi Cyndy,

    I agree. It’s usually a waste of everyone’s time to be so focused on spinning wheels with a difficult person. I’ve dealt with all sorts of people over the years and not all of them have been easy to get along with.

    For the most part, differences can be overlooked and the project can be completed successfully. But there are times, situations, or clients that just don’t fit no matter how much you want it to fit.

    Reply
  5. Stacy Quarty Avatar
    Stacy Quarty

    I agree with Devon… you learn through experience.

    Reply
  6. Gabriella F. Avatar
    Gabriella F.

    Hi Lori.

    Funny timing. I let go of a client just yesterday.

    The problem was that the client kept changing the assignment. After it happened a few times, I talked to the editor and said, essentially, “I’m concerned becuase if your publisher doesn’t really know what he wants, I can’t possibly meet expectations.”

    She assured me we were now on track.

    Then, Wednesday, she placed new restrictions on the reporting for the assignment again. Aaaak!

    I simply had to say that I didn’t think I could hit a moving target.

    One reason I was particularly comfortable giving up this assignment, however, was that it was for a regional publication that I’d have not likely got more assignments from. So I didn’t think I was cutting off future business.

    Can I tell you how relieved I am to have that assignment off my plate?!

    Have a great weekend.

    Reply
  7. Devon Ellington Avatar
    Devon Ellington

    I withdrew from consideration for a gig today. The client kept sending out emails with questions that were covered in previous materials, and it was obvious that none of the materials were reviewed. It was hoop-jumping, to see who kept responding and using that to winnow it down. I’m sure I’m the only one who responded with the type of Broadway credentials this person wanted, yet she couldn’t be bothered to answer my questions about rate/contract/royalties/work, just kept asking the same questions over and over.

    So I withdrew.

    If the pre-INTERVIEW process is this disrespectful, can you imagine what the actual work experience would be like?

    No.

    Reply
© 2026 Words on the Page | Powered by Minimalist Blog WordPress Theme