Comments on: Dear Freelancer: It’s Not All About You

By: lwidmer

lwidmer — Fri, 18 Sep 2020 16:33:00 +0000

In reply to Paula Hendrickson. Yes, I remember you mentioning that. It's okay to not have all the answers, to learn something from a colleague (and I will thank you forever for two things in particular: LOIs and Otter!). Being the only voice in the room means you have to stay on top of everything so that your voice is still relevant. And that's unlikely to happen in the best of scenarios.

By: Paula Hendrickson

Paula Hendrickson — Fri, 18 Sep 2020 16:01:19 +0000

It reminds me of something I mentioned to you months ago Lori: Someone whose business model is built on the claim that it helps freelancers was an invited to participate in a Twitter chat for freelancers, and had what I’d describe as a bit of a meltdown when their advice was challenged by—brace yourself—actual, working, successful freelancers. Not a great impression to make with your target audience.

The only attitude professionals should have is a professional attitude.

By: lwidmer

lwidmer — Fri, 18 Sep 2020 14:05:54 +0000

Just a week, Cathy. 🙂 I know what you mean — sometimes it’s tough keeping up.

The one LI group I’m in is frequented by editors, so the hissy fit I witnessed was seen by folks in a position to hire. Way to make a great impression, right?

You’re right — at that point, it’s a detriment to these folks. It’s a huge help to potential clients, though. They get to see the personality before they hire. And I’d love to know how many actually walk away as a result.

By: Cathy Miller

Cathy Miller — Fri, 18 Sep 2020 13:02:03 +0000

Love the new look of your site, Lori! Please don’t tell me it’s been that way for months. 🙂 Can’t seem to do the reading I want these days.

Also love this post. Sound advice all the way around. From Day One, I’ve been appalled at some of the comments/pitches/tantrums I’ve seen on LinkedIn. I know it happens on all social media platforms but I point out LI because its whole idea is about being a professional network and finding work. You want to ask, and this is helping you how…???