Paula, I agree. The sign of a good editor is one who will change the story to enhance it, not strip it of the author's voice. If you can still recognize your story as yours and it reads better, you've found a fantastic editor.

BTW- I like the changes to your site, Lori. What made you decide to change?

After an initial reaction that my work wasn't up to par, I realized the truth was she was a narcissist. I also compared my copy with hers. Mine was better. I never used that as a clip.

That's when I realized how some editors and "pros" are the ones lacking confidence. After all – what takes more guts: finding new freelance markets and sending in your first story, or trying to prove your superiority by tearing decent copy to shreds and slapping your name everywhere you can so you won't miss any chance for praise?

I don't think we are immune. I remember having a particularly bizarre experience with an editor who'd edited my work so much I was beginning to doubt my abilities. This was just a few years ago. Some people are just too good at making you feel worthless.

The difference is what we do after receiving it. We recognize our emotions for what they are and move on because we know we are damn fine writers.

I remember participating in a Group on LinkedIn. It was within the first few months of starting my business. I shared an idea to which one member responded, "Leave it to a professional to come up with a great idea."

I arrived. 🙂