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		By: Lori		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Dec 2009 13:32:42 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Jenn, I agree. Resolutions, as Devon says, are not the problem. Applying action to them is. I tried reframing it not as resolutions, but as business plans. Sometimes it&#039;s easier for people to wrap their minds around a plan instead of a promise. And I&#039;m like you - if I say it out loud, I&#039;m going to back that up with some serious action.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Diane, I think these are both excellent tools to get motivated and stay that way. Mental lists, for those of us uber-organized types, are deadlines that must be met. ;) And I love setting a quantity goal. Whatever works is great!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jenn, I agree. Resolutions, as Devon says, are not the problem. Applying action to them is. I tried reframing it not as resolutions, but as business plans. Sometimes it&#39;s easier for people to wrap their minds around a plan instead of a promise. And I&#39;m like you &#8211; if I say it out loud, I&#39;m going to back that up with some serious action.</p>
<p>Diane, I think these are both excellent tools to get motivated and stay that way. Mental lists, for those of us uber-organized types, are deadlines that must be met. 😉 And I love setting a quantity goal. Whatever works is great!</p>
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		By: Diane		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Dec 2009 11:49:30 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I&#039;m a big fan of resolutions too, but that&#039;s the linear aspect to me - I like to have lots of things to tick as I go along as it gives me a mental pat on the back and the motivation to continue. If I don&#039;t stick to my resolutions I&#039;ve stopped beating myself up about it, but it&#039;s still a cross rather than a tick. The list ethic works very well for me and resolutions are natural listees.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Saying that, I also do the numbers game. I decide how many articles/stories/fillers etc I completed last year and how many I can realistically complete this year, and I do the same with earnings. Getting a day job made me a bit lazy but I had other stuff going on at the same time and needed the regular income as I couldn&#039;t concentrate on getting additional work/income in at the time. We have a contractual bonus that they nearly didn&#039;t pay last year and I had to replace that sum of money elsewhere. I replaced it, and then we got the bonus as well, so in effect I earned extra last year to what I expected.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So, my work &#034;resolutions&#034; for the coming year include: complete 1 article/short story/filler/chapter per month (= 12 each for the year -- minimum), 4 magazines, 2 brochures, 1 website, 4 competition entries; + at least my regular annual salary + the bonus + the bonus again + a bit more that I haven&#039;t yet decided, but probably at least the bonus again.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#39;m a big fan of resolutions too, but that&#39;s the linear aspect to me &#8211; I like to have lots of things to tick as I go along as it gives me a mental pat on the back and the motivation to continue. If I don&#39;t stick to my resolutions I&#39;ve stopped beating myself up about it, but it&#39;s still a cross rather than a tick. The list ethic works very well for me and resolutions are natural listees.</p>
<p>Saying that, I also do the numbers game. I decide how many articles/stories/fillers etc I completed last year and how many I can realistically complete this year, and I do the same with earnings. Getting a day job made me a bit lazy but I had other stuff going on at the same time and needed the regular income as I couldn&#39;t concentrate on getting additional work/income in at the time. We have a contractual bonus that they nearly didn&#39;t pay last year and I had to replace that sum of money elsewhere. I replaced it, and then we got the bonus as well, so in effect I earned extra last year to what I expected.</p>
<p>So, my work &quot;resolutions&quot; for the coming year include: complete 1 article/short story/filler/chapter per month (= 12 each for the year &#8212; minimum), 4 magazines, 2 brochures, 1 website, 4 competition entries; + at least my regular annual salary + the bonus + the bonus again + a bit more that I haven&#39;t yet decided, but probably at least the bonus again.</p>
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		By: Jenn Mattern		</title>
		<link>https://wordsonpageblog.com/2009/12/forget-resolutions.html#comment-4381</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Jenn Mattern]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Dec 2009 21:54:57 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I&#039;m personally a fan of resolutions, but then again I don&#039;t set a goal without also mapping out a plan to make it happen. Whether that&#039;s knowing how often, when, and where I&#039;m going to work out to work towards those 10 lbs lost or it&#039;s figuring out what to raise my rates to in order to meet new income goals, the key is not going into the new year (or new day for that matter) blindly. Goals are great, but you need a plan if you ever want to get beyond that.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#39;m personally a fan of resolutions, but then again I don&#39;t set a goal without also mapping out a plan to make it happen. Whether that&#39;s knowing how often, when, and where I&#39;m going to work out to work towards those 10 lbs lost or it&#39;s figuring out what to raise my rates to in order to meet new income goals, the key is not going into the new year (or new day for that matter) blindly. Goals are great, but you need a plan if you ever want to get beyond that.</p>
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		By: Lori		</title>
		<link>https://wordsonpageblog.com/2009/12/forget-resolutions.html#comment-4380</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lori]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Dec 2009 20:19:35 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Bingo, Devon. :)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Bingo, Devon. 🙂</p>
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		By: Devon Ellington		</title>
		<link>https://wordsonpageblog.com/2009/12/forget-resolutions.html#comment-4379</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Devon Ellington]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Dec 2009 17:20:55 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Lori, I get what you&#039;re saying.  What&#039;s at fault here isn&#039;t the concept of resolutions, but the lack of courage, commitment,and dedication many individuals have to actually build the lives they want.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That&#039;s within THEM, not within the concept of &#034;resolutions.&#034;]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lori, I get what you&#39;re saying.  What&#39;s at fault here isn&#39;t the concept of resolutions, but the lack of courage, commitment,and dedication many individuals have to actually build the lives they want.</p>
<p>That&#39;s within THEM, not within the concept of &quot;resolutions.&quot;</p>
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		By: Lori		</title>
		<link>https://wordsonpageblog.com/2009/12/forget-resolutions.html#comment-4377</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lori]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Dec 2009 16:38:15 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[That&#039;s the difference between you two and the rest of the world - you put action behind your resolutions. In general, we don&#039;t. We just say &#034;I&#039;m losing ten pounds!&#034; or &#034;I&#039;m getting a better job!&#034; but we don&#039;t move toward that. We just state it and forget it. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Devon, I totally agree that resolutions take courage. They also take commitment and a plan. It&#039;s why your triple play has worked so well for so long (you guys, DO go see Devon&#039;s site. It&#039;s inspiring). I think resolutions alone are a huge waste of time and a good way to kick ourselves ahead of time for that failure to meet that resolution.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wendy, stubbornness is an excellent quality. It takes guts and the inability to accept &#034;no&#034; for an answer to reach success. And please, hold me to my goals, too. We&#039;re in it together, eh? :)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That&#39;s the difference between you two and the rest of the world &#8211; you put action behind your resolutions. In general, we don&#39;t. We just say &quot;I&#39;m losing ten pounds!&quot; or &quot;I&#39;m getting a better job!&quot; but we don&#39;t move toward that. We just state it and forget it. </p>
<p>Devon, I totally agree that resolutions take courage. They also take commitment and a plan. It&#39;s why your triple play has worked so well for so long (you guys, DO go see Devon&#39;s site. It&#39;s inspiring). I think resolutions alone are a huge waste of time and a good way to kick ourselves ahead of time for that failure to meet that resolution.</p>
<p>Wendy, stubbornness is an excellent quality. It takes guts and the inability to accept &quot;no&quot; for an answer to reach success. And please, hold me to my goals, too. We&#39;re in it together, eh? 🙂</p>
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		By: Wendy		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Wendy]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Dec 2009 16:05:39 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Like Devon, I&#039;m a big fan of resolutions, but in my opinion, don&#039;t bother making them if you don&#039;t have any intention of trying to follow through with them. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Most people I know, that make resolutions, do it simply for the sake of making some. They either don&#039;t bother following through with them or they do it for a couple of days and quit because they didn&#039;t see immediate results. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I usually make one or two every year; sometimes more. I know that I&#039;ll fall off the wagon a time or two, but that only gives me more fire and determination to push through. Stubbornness can be a good quality, eh?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I&#039;m still figuring out a business plan for next year, so when I get that done I&#039;ll have more of an idea of what my expected income goal will be for 2010. I have no qualms in believing you&#039;ll hold me or anyone else to those goals, Lori; nor do I have any reason to doubt that you&#039;ll meet your own.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Like Devon, I&#39;m a big fan of resolutions, but in my opinion, don&#39;t bother making them if you don&#39;t have any intention of trying to follow through with them. </p>
<p>Most people I know, that make resolutions, do it simply for the sake of making some. They either don&#39;t bother following through with them or they do it for a couple of days and quit because they didn&#39;t see immediate results. </p>
<p>I usually make one or two every year; sometimes more. I know that I&#39;ll fall off the wagon a time or two, but that only gives me more fire and determination to push through. Stubbornness can be a good quality, eh?</p>
<p>I&#39;m still figuring out a business plan for next year, so when I get that done I&#39;ll have more of an idea of what my expected income goal will be for 2010. I have no qualms in believing you&#39;ll hold me or anyone else to those goals, Lori; nor do I have any reason to doubt that you&#39;ll meet your own.</p>
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		By: Devon Ellington		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Devon Ellington]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Dec 2009 15:15:28 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I disagree about resolutions.  REsolutions are a way to set the bar for yourself.  Something to aim towards.  One of the reasons we&#039;re in such a mess is because we&#039;re encouraged to lower our own bars, that it&#039;s &#034;okay&#034; to lower/not meet expectations, that nothing is our actual fault.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Bull pucky.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It&#039;s time to stop settling for mediocrity, on both personal levels and beyond.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Goals, Dreams, and Resolutions work together and shore each other up.  When you live a holistic life instead of a fragmented one, each shores up the other.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That&#039;s why I set up the Goals, Dreams, and Resolutions site.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;http://goalsdreamsresolutions.wordpress.com&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I&#039;ve got the questions up for 2010.  I&#039;m posting my accountability on December 31 for this year -- and I&#039;m hard on myself, because I did not meet my goals -- and here I thought I&#039;d put in such a productive year.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I pull no punches on where I fell short this year and why, and on January 1, I answer the 2010 questions and see how what I learned from where I fell short can be applied to make 2010  the best year ever.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Resolutions take courage, and too often, we are encouraged not to take risks.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Why do you think content mills get away with so much?  Because people, across the boards, are encouraged to lower their own personal bars.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Goals are the steps we take to achieve our resolutions, which in turn, are the foundation of our dreams.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I let myself get mired in things that weren&#039;t a priority of my heart this year, and, although I managed to keep my head above water financially, I felt trapped and frustrated.  I willingly gave up my safety net, and that gave me a huge sense of freedom, but I didn&#039;t utilize it properly.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I do not intend to get stuck in that quicksand for 2010.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I disagree about resolutions.  REsolutions are a way to set the bar for yourself.  Something to aim towards.  One of the reasons we&#39;re in such a mess is because we&#39;re encouraged to lower our own bars, that it&#39;s &quot;okay&quot; to lower/not meet expectations, that nothing is our actual fault.</p>
<p>Bull pucky.</p>
<p>It&#39;s time to stop settling for mediocrity, on both personal levels and beyond.</p>
<p>Goals, Dreams, and Resolutions work together and shore each other up.  When you live a holistic life instead of a fragmented one, each shores up the other.</p>
<p>That&#39;s why I set up the Goals, Dreams, and Resolutions site.</p>
<p><a href="http://goalsdreamsresolutions.wordpress.com" rel="nofollow ugc">http://goalsdreamsresolutions.wordpress.com</a></p>
<p>I&#39;ve got the questions up for 2010.  I&#39;m posting my accountability on December 31 for this year &#8212; and I&#39;m hard on myself, because I did not meet my goals &#8212; and here I thought I&#39;d put in such a productive year.</p>
<p>I pull no punches on where I fell short this year and why, and on January 1, I answer the 2010 questions and see how what I learned from where I fell short can be applied to make 2010  the best year ever.</p>
<p>Resolutions take courage, and too often, we are encouraged not to take risks.</p>
<p>Why do you think content mills get away with so much?  Because people, across the boards, are encouraged to lower their own personal bars.</p>
<p>Goals are the steps we take to achieve our resolutions, which in turn, are the foundation of our dreams.</p>
<p>I let myself get mired in things that weren&#39;t a priority of my heart this year, and, although I managed to keep my head above water financially, I felt trapped and frustrated.  I willingly gave up my safety net, and that gave me a huge sense of freedom, but I didn&#39;t utilize it properly.</p>
<p>I do not intend to get stuck in that quicksand for 2010.</p>
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