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		By: Lori		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lori]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Mar 2009 20:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Excellent, Cyndy. I&#039;m the same way. If I can accommodate you and it&#039;s not a situation where once again you&#039;re last-minute emergencies are being thrust on me, I&#039;ll help. But I won&#039;t extend beyond the 10 hours I&#039;m already available. I can&#039;t. I need a life beyond work.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Excellent, Cyndy. I&#8217;m the same way. If I can accommodate you and it&#8217;s not a situation where once again you&#8217;re last-minute emergencies are being thrust on me, I&#8217;ll help. But I won&#8217;t extend beyond the 10 hours I&#8217;m already available. I can&#8217;t. I need a life beyond work.</p>
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		By: Cyndy Kryder		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Cyndy Kryder]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Mar 2009 14:28:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[You raise good points here, Lori. And I agree completely that we need to have boundaries. One of the problems with having a home office is the seductiveness of being able to work at all hours. And when I initially started out freelancing, I might have been more willing to pull long hours, but no more.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;That being said, I do believe that whenever my phone rings, it&#039;s a chance for me to be a hero for my clients. I&#039;m here to solve their problems BUT I don&#039;t ever want them to overstep their bounds. I work routine hours, Monday through Friday, but sometimes a client will call at 4:55 asking for something immediately. Depending on the client and the relationship I have with them, I might help them out. But I do it selectively. And I won&#039;t ever work ridiculous hours because of my client&#039;s own poor time-management.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Once a client takes advantage, I &quot;fire&quot; them gently, by being unavailable for future assignments. Life&#039;s too short and there are too many other good clients out there.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You raise good points here, Lori. And I agree completely that we need to have boundaries. One of the problems with having a home office is the seductiveness of being able to work at all hours. And when I initially started out freelancing, I might have been more willing to pull long hours, but no more.</p>
<p>That being said, I do believe that whenever my phone rings, it&#8217;s a chance for me to be a hero for my clients. I&#8217;m here to solve their problems BUT I don&#8217;t ever want them to overstep their bounds. I work routine hours, Monday through Friday, but sometimes a client will call at 4:55 asking for something immediately. Depending on the client and the relationship I have with them, I might help them out. But I do it selectively. And I won&#8217;t ever work ridiculous hours because of my client&#8217;s own poor time-management.</p>
<p>Once a client takes advantage, I &#8220;fire&#8221; them gently, by being unavailable for future assignments. Life&#8217;s too short and there are too many other good clients out there.</p>
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		By: Lori		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lori]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Mar 2009 12:15:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Mridu, that&#039;s so true. I had a client once who continued to call through my daughter&#039;s high-school graduation party after I&#039;d told her - numerous times - that I wouldn&#039;t be available until that following week. I dropped the client shortly after. Respect is a two-way street. If she wasn&#039;t going to respect my very simple boundaries at the beginning, it was going to be difficult for me to respect her as a client.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Lillie, your boundaries are no calls before you wake up. :) Totally understandable. I have the same ones. Because my clients tend to be more corporate, I accommodate their schedules more than you would have to. But if there&#039;s a call at 7 pm on a Wednesday, forget it. The computer&#039;s off, the brain&#039;s off, and I&#039;m relaxing. :)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mridu, that&#8217;s so true. I had a client once who continued to call through my daughter&#8217;s high-school graduation party after I&#8217;d told her &#8211; numerous times &#8211; that I wouldn&#8217;t be available until that following week. I dropped the client shortly after. Respect is a two-way street. If she wasn&#8217;t going to respect my very simple boundaries at the beginning, it was going to be difficult for me to respect her as a client.</p>
<p>Lillie, your boundaries are no calls before you wake up. 🙂 Totally understandable. I have the same ones. Because my clients tend to be more corporate, I accommodate their schedules more than you would have to. But if there&#8217;s a call at 7 pm on a Wednesday, forget it. The computer&#8217;s off, the brain&#8217;s off, and I&#8217;m relaxing. 🙂</p>
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		By: Lillie Ammann		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lillie Ammann]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Mar 2009 05:27:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I don&#039;t work business hours. I prefer to sleep during the day and work at night. So I&#039;m happy to take calls in the evening but not in the morning.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;My clients know I&#039;m usually not available for phone calls until late afternoon. I do adjust my schedule occasionally to be available for client meetings during normal business hours.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;But I don&#039;t think I have to work 9-5 just because that&#039;s the normal business day for most people.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t work business hours. I prefer to sleep during the day and work at night. So I&#8217;m happy to take calls in the evening but not in the morning.</p>
<p>My clients know I&#8217;m usually not available for phone calls until late afternoon. I do adjust my schedule occasionally to be available for client meetings during normal business hours.</p>
<p>But I don&#8217;t think I have to work 9-5 just because that&#8217;s the normal business day for most people.</p>
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		By: Mridu Khullar		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Mridu Khullar]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Mar 2009 04:47:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Most of my clients are sane people who understand boundaries, and don&#039;t expect me to drop everything for them. &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;But there&#039;s always that one person who&#039;ll appear out of nowhere on a Friday evening expecting work to be done by Sunday morning, and while I took that kind of work early on, I don&#039;t need to any more. &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;I&#039;ve worked in the rural parts of Asia and Africa, where there was no access to Internet. In one specific incident, I told the editor I would be unavailable for a week because I was going to a remote part of India that is not well-connected, and yet she continued writing to me over that period and dropped me after I didn&#039;t respond. &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Some people can be quite clueless. And you&#039;re always better off without these clueless clients.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Most of my clients are sane people who understand boundaries, and don&#8217;t expect me to drop everything for them. </p>
<p>But there&#8217;s always that one person who&#8217;ll appear out of nowhere on a Friday evening expecting work to be done by Sunday morning, and while I took that kind of work early on, I don&#8217;t need to any more. </p>
<p>I&#8217;ve worked in the rural parts of Asia and Africa, where there was no access to Internet. In one specific incident, I told the editor I would be unavailable for a week because I was going to a remote part of India that is not well-connected, and yet she continued writing to me over that period and dropped me after I didn&#8217;t respond. </p>
<p>Some people can be quite clueless. And you&#8217;re always better off without these clueless clients.</p>
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		By: Lori		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lori]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Mar 2009 19:49:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Oh, I had one of those, Gabriella! I drew the boundaries around IMs and cell phone calls at all hours. Either 9-to-5 or not at all for that one!&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Yes, we do have to make exceptions, but too often we allow our working lives to intersect with our personal lives to the point where the lines disappear altogether. I&#039;ve seen it, I&#039;ve done it a few times, and I&#039;m avoiding it at all costs!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh, I had one of those, Gabriella! I drew the boundaries around IMs and cell phone calls at all hours. Either 9-to-5 or not at all for that one!</p>
<p>Yes, we do have to make exceptions, but too often we allow our working lives to intersect with our personal lives to the point where the lines disappear altogether. I&#8217;ve seen it, I&#8217;ve done it a few times, and I&#8217;m avoiding it at all costs!</p>
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		By: Gabriella F.		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Gabriella F.]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Mar 2009 17:07:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[This is a great post, Lori.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;I totally agree--boundaries are necessary.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;I rarely have clients call me in the evenings or on weekends. It&#039;s typically sources who want to connect then. But I don&#039;t do interviews then unless there&#039;s a crazy reason I have to.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;For instance, if somebody is the perfect--and only--source I have, I&#039;ll do an unusual interview time (very rare!). And I once interviewed a lawyer in Hong Kong; with the 13-hour time difference, the best we could come up with was a 9 p.m. call for me.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;If I ever run into a client who wants all my time at unreasonable hours, I&#039;ll have to make some difficult decisions. But right now, my feeling is that I&#039;m a freelancer for a reason. I get to choose my own hours. If I can&#039;t do that, why not work in-house and get a steadier salary and health benefits?!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is a great post, Lori.</p>
<p>I totally agree&#8211;boundaries are necessary.</p>
<p>I rarely have clients call me in the evenings or on weekends. It&#8217;s typically sources who want to connect then. But I don&#8217;t do interviews then unless there&#8217;s a crazy reason I have to.</p>
<p>For instance, if somebody is the perfect&#8211;and only&#8211;source I have, I&#8217;ll do an unusual interview time (very rare!). And I once interviewed a lawyer in Hong Kong; with the 13-hour time difference, the best we could come up with was a 9 p.m. call for me.</p>
<p>If I ever run into a client who wants all my time at unreasonable hours, I&#8217;ll have to make some difficult decisions. But right now, my feeling is that I&#8217;m a freelancer for a reason. I get to choose my own hours. If I can&#8217;t do that, why not work in-house and get a steadier salary and health benefits?!</p>
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		By: Devon Ellington		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Devon Ellington]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Mar 2009 12:12:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[As I&#039;ve said before, I don&#039;t do business on the phone.  I check messages twice a day on weekdays and return calls.  I do not answer the phone during my workday.  Period.  90% of the phone stuff is a waste of time.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;I take days off whenever I want or need them, depending upon deadlines.  I am not available to corporate clients outside of regular business hours; I&#039;m a little more flexible with arts clients, because that&#039;s the business.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;I have boundaries -- the mornings are for my work, afternoons for client work, unless I&#039;ve gotten behind in something or there&#039;s a big project with a nice big rush fee attached.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Unless the client is paying me a HUGE amount of money for round-the-clock attention, they don&#039;t get it. Actually, I&#039;ve turned down quite a few of those jobs, because freelancing means making my own schedule, not being on someone else&#039;s beyond respecting a deadline.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;I&#039;m a lot less amenable than a lot of freelancers, but it hasn&#039;t hurt my business.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As I&#8217;ve said before, I don&#8217;t do business on the phone.  I check messages twice a day on weekdays and return calls.  I do not answer the phone during my workday.  Period.  90% of the phone stuff is a waste of time.</p>
<p>I take days off whenever I want or need them, depending upon deadlines.  I am not available to corporate clients outside of regular business hours; I&#8217;m a little more flexible with arts clients, because that&#8217;s the business.</p>
<p>I have boundaries &#8212; the mornings are for my work, afternoons for client work, unless I&#8217;ve gotten behind in something or there&#8217;s a big project with a nice big rush fee attached.</p>
<p>Unless the client is paying me a HUGE amount of money for round-the-clock attention, they don&#8217;t get it. Actually, I&#8217;ve turned down quite a few of those jobs, because freelancing means making my own schedule, not being on someone else&#8217;s beyond respecting a deadline.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m a lot less amenable than a lot of freelancers, but it hasn&#8217;t hurt my business.</p>
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